Introduction
Alexandra Jarvis is one of the most searched personalities from Netflix’s Selling the OC. She came to real estate from a legal career, stayed calm through office feuds and left the Oppenheim Group in 2024. Fans still want to know how old she is, who her husband is, how many times she has been married, what she is worth and what she is doing now. Reports on reality stars often disagree on dates, ages and money, so this article points out where the sources conflict.
Who Is Alexandra Jarvis?
Alexandra Jarvis is an American attorney, former luxury real estate agent and reality TV personality. She joined the cast of Selling the OC, the Netflix spin-off of Selling Sunset that follows agents at the Oppenheim Group’s Newport Beach office. Her IMDb biography describes her as an on-camera actress who began her career on the show and has since focused on scripted work. It also lists her as a licensed attorney trained in Meisner technique and scene study. Her Instagram handle is @thealexandrajarvis, and her bio, which once read “Attorney/Realtor/Amateur Chef,” was later changed to “attorney/TV and film.” That change reflects where her career has moved.
Real Name, Age and Birthday
Many people search for her real name because of a moment in the show’s second season. During a trip to Cabo, fellow agent Alex Hall noticed that Jarvis’s boarding pass read “Rachel” instead of Alexandra. Jarvis later explained to Entertainment Tonight that Rachel is her first name and Alexandra is her middle name. She said that going by a middle name is very common in the South. A California State Bar public record for an attorney named Rachael Alexandra Jarvis lists UC Irvine School of Law and admission on December 10, 2019, though the spelling of the first name differs slightly from the one she has given.
She was born on May 6, 1990, which makes her 36 years old as of September 2026. Interviews in early 2024 gave her age as 33, which fits that birthday. Her birthday also makes her a Taurus, for anyone curious about her zodiac sign. She is reported to be about 5 feet 8 inches tall.
Alabama Roots and Education
Jarvis is from Alabama, and she brought that Southern identity with her to California. ScreenRant names Shoal Creek as her hometown, while other fan profiles point to Helena. Both are small communities in the Birmingham area, so either could be behind searches like “Alexandra Jarvis Alabama.” She has not spoken about her childhood in much depth on the show, but her Southern manners became a running theme. She often used words like “honey” and “dear,” which some co-stars read as condescending. She has said it was simply how she was raised and a way to calm tense moments.
Her education is a major part of her story. According to her Oppenheim Group biography, she graduated summa cum laude from Auburn University with a degree in Spanish and International Business. She then attended UC Irvine School of Law and graduated with distinction. After law school she worked at a litigation firm in Newport Beach, handling business and employment law matters.
From Law Career to Luxury Real Estate
Jarvis’s move from law to real estate is one of the most repeated parts of her profile. She spent years as an attorney, developing skills in negotiation, client advocacy and problem-solving. Jason Oppenheim, the Oppenheim Group’s cofounder, was himself a lawyer before he became a broker. Reports say the two connected over their legal backgrounds, and she was later invited to work as an agent at the firm.
Her early results were strong. Her official bio says she closed nearly $40 million in sales during her first year in the industry, a figure that appears in almost every profile of her. She also worked as a model, and she has said she modeled wedding dresses growing up. When Selling the OC was announced, she joined the new Orange County office as one of the brokerage’s agents.
Alexandra Jarvis on Selling the OC
Selling the OC premiered on August 24, 2022, and Jarvis appears in seasons one through three. Season two arrived in September 2023, and season three followed in May 2024. In the first season she was paired with Alexandra Rose, and the two spent much of their time knocking on doors to find listings that were not yet on the market. Rose later said the two of them were not originally cast and that the other agents treated them coldly once they were added. Rose named Alex Hall and Polly Brindle as leading the freeze-out, which those cast members disputed. Brindle said Jarvis barely acknowledged her for months before filming began.
Viewers largely warmed to Jarvis. Many fans called her a favorite, and some felt she and Rose were unfairly treated. In season two the show added a fourth agent named Alexandra, which led to jokes about the number of Alexandras in the office. That season also saw Jarvis pull away from Rose, whom she described as unprofessional and not truly a friend, and she had a public feud with Polly Brindle. In a press interview in 2024 the two clashed again, with Jarvis snapping that she was still talking. Jarvis is also friendly with Selling Sunset‘s Chelsea Lazkani, who appeared with her during her wedding dress shopping.
Why Alexandra Jarvis Left the Show
Jarvis resigned from the Oppenheim Group’s Newport Beach office in early 2024. The Daily Mail was the first to report it, after her photo had been missing from the company’s website for several weeks. She was the third agent to leave the brokerage since October 2023, following Tyler Stanaland and Sean Palmieri.
She explained the decision to People, saying several factors were involved and pointing to a “toxic culture” as one of them. She also said she knows when it’s time to leave a party. Jason Oppenheim responded graciously, saying she did what was best for her, that he respects that, and that the two remain on good terms. Since the series follows that specific office, her exit from the brokerage meant an exit from the show. She still appeared in season three, which had already been filmed, but she is not in season four, which premiered in November 2025. She also said she was enjoying married life and looking forward to less stress and drama. The show itself was reported to be on indefinite hiatus in April 2026.
Husband Sergio Ducoulombier and the Lake Como Wedding
Jarvis is married to Sergio Ducoulombier, the CEO of a fintech company called Slip Cash. Reports say he has led the company since January 2019 and holds a patent related to peer-to-peer cashless payments on mobile devices. He earned a business degree from the University of Washington in 1999, and one outlet describes him as a former U.S. Marine. He was 46 when they married, so he is roughly 14 years older than Jarvis and around 49 or 50 today.
Reports differ on when they met. Her own anniversary post pointed to June 2019, when she said he walked into a restaurant and beat her at rock, paper, scissors, though a few sources say 2018. They got engaged around Christmas in 2020. The couple married on April 14, 2023, at the Villa del Balbianello overlooking Lake Como, Italy. Jarvis told People they wanted an intimate and romantic day without traditional wedding expectations, and that Lake Como is where she first told him she loved him.
She wore a custom couture dress by designer Michael Costello, and the couple took a private boat ride to Bellagio after the vows. She said she did not tell people the details, and she also said some people she had seemed close to in season one would not be on the guest list for a later celebration. The wedding and honeymoon were featured in the season three premiere.
Past Marriages, Net Worth and Life Today
On the show, co-stars nicknamed Jarvis a “ring collector,” and season two even includes an episode with that title. Polly Brindle claimed she had been married about 17 times. Jarvis corrected the record in a confessional, saying she had been married twice and engaged three times before Sergio, with Sergio being the third engagement. That means Sergio is her third husband. Her second husband is identified as Michael French. They reportedly married in 2015 and divorced by 2018, with Jarvis filing in Orange County Superior Court, and the reason has never been made public. Little is known about her first marriage, and I would not rely on message-board guesses about a private person. I found no reporting that she has children.
Net worth figures are rough and inconsistent. Several outlets estimate about $4 million, another puts it near $5 million, Grazia gives about £3.4 million, and one profile offers a range of $1 million to $5 million. Her husband’s net worth is even harder to pin down, with online estimates ranging from a few million to $50 million, none of them verified. As for her current work, she appears to be focused on acting, and I did not find confirmation of whether she still holds an active real estate license. Online chatter about her appearance, such as her teeth or weight, is speculation with no confirmation from her, and I would not draw conclusions about anyone’s health from photos.
Conclusion
Alexandra Jarvis’s story is more layered than a reality TV role suggests. She went from Alabama to Auburn and UC Irvine School of Law, worked as a litigator, and then moved into luxury real estate, where she reportedly closed nearly $40 million in her first year. On Selling the OC she was a composed presence in a high-conflict office, and she left the Oppenheim Group when she decided the culture was not worth it. Her 2023 wedding to Sergio Ducoulombier in Italy gave her a happy ending to the “ring collector” jokes, and her focus now appears to be on acting. Because reports on her age, marriages and net worth often conflict, her own interviews and social media remain the best sources for updates.